Monday, October 8, 2007

Thanks to everyone who's commented so far! We want as much feedback as possible, so if you haven't weighed in yet, get your comments up on the blog or shoot us an e-mail at willmemorial@gmail.com.

There's been a lot of conversation going on so far. Here's what we've taken from the comments that have been made:

1. It sounds like a lot of you want to see a memorial book donation in Will's name, in addition to a prize given out at Honors Convocation.

2. It sounds like people want the prize at Honors Convocation to be a prize for students.

3. Many of you would also like to recognize community members in general (especially faculty) with a second prize. On this end, we're doing research into what's feasible in terms of how the College awards prizes on an annual basis. To the best of our knowledge all the prizes awarded at Honors Convocation are monetary prizes, so if people are interested in an honorary, non-monetary prize for the non-student community at Wells that may be separate from a prize given out at Honors Convocation.


We've been talking to Development at Wells and working specifically on developing a memorial prize that honors Will that will be given in some form during Honors Convocation every year. In order to get one established we need to figure out the terms of the prize. Because we want to establish this prize to be awarded for the first time at the end of the 2007 - 2008 academic year, setting up the terms and fund for the prize is our #1 priority. So to move forward, these are the questions we still need to answer:

1. Do we have a wording and a name for the prize that everyone agrees on? We haven't seen other suggestions for wording besides Carrie's suggestions (The William Nicholas Liberi Memorial Prize: Awarded annually to the member of the Wells College Community who has demonstrated a commitment to transgender and queer issues, especially through hir services as an ally to the tlgbq community.) Should we move forward with this? Do people have specific objections or other suggestions?

2. It's really important that we establish a prize with longevity. This is part of the reason that we've set up the poll on fund raising goals. We need to know that the monetary fund that is established is easily replenished each year, and we need to set dollar amount to award at Honors Convocation every year. Do you plan to donate on an annual basis? Will you commit to donating every year or even a few times a year?

3. Should only students be eligible to win the prize given at honors convocation, or should the whole community be eligible? Opening up the prize to the whole community means that anyone from a student to a professor, to a housekeeper to an employee of the bookstore can win. If the prize is student-only, obviously, it is restricted to the student body. (Look for a poll on this question in the right hand column.)

4. Who should the judges be? There has been a lot of talk about alums judging. We can find out if that is possible. If it is, who wants to volunteer to do it every year? If it's not who should be in charge of making the decision?


Finally, in terms of donating books in Will's name... if people want to get started on that, it's a wonderful idea. Is there someone interested in taking the helm, and finding out the feasibility of the project? We are committed to setting up the prize fund, which we'll have to do directly through the Office of Development. If someone else is interested in contacting the library, or taking charge of doing this book thing as a separate project that would be great. Perhaps the best way to organize book donations would be to set up a separate memorial project and there's definitely room for discussion about how to do that here--or even on a separate, linked blog.

13 comments:

Meghan Roberson Sommers '05 said...

I can contact the library about book donations. The library's website says that "gifts are accepted with the understanding that the library may include them in the collection or dispose of them at the librarian's discretion." Kim Nolan seems to be the person to contact about book gifts though, so I'll see what I can find out.

Meghan Roberson Sommers '05 said...

Alright, I've sent an email to the library.

Also! Your other questions!

1. I agree with Carrie's wording!

2. I would probably donate on a regular basis, although not as much as I am likely to donate the first time. I haven't ever (and hadn't planned on) given Wells any money post-graduation before, and I'm excited to have a way to contribute to the college that I can believe in.

3. If it is possible to have a non-monetary award in addition to the monetary award (such as a book donated in a faculty/staff person's name) then I think that the monetary prize should be students only. Otherwise, while part of me thinks that it should be a student's only thing, if we don't have a separate way to recognize non-student members of the Wells community, then I think that opening the prize up to everyone would be nice. I'm sure other people disagree with me though, and thats fine. :-)

4. I like the idea of a committee that includes alum(s)/faculty that was at Wells with Will in addition to current student(s) and possibly whoever the faculty adviser of LBQTA (or whatever it is now) is. My only issue with an alum is that um... alums aren't around forever. If Wells and this award still exists in 2070, who would fill that spot? If we do include alum(s) I would love to be a part of it.

I'll let you know what I find out about book donations!

~Meghan (Roberson)

Aurora07 said...

First, you guys are awesome!!!

Second, I like Carrie's wording of the award very much and am not sure how it could be improved upon.

Meghan raises a good point about alums not being around forever. What about having the chair of Q&A, as well as the past few chairs/co-chairs be part of the voting. As well as maybe the directer of diversity and recent alums of SDC. That way the alums who are on the committee have recently graduated and know most of the students on campus and there are some faculty and staff members who are involved as well.

Unknown said...

Something I'd like to add regarding point 2 of Meghan's -- while I totally support this project, I did commit that I would not donate to Wells and that is a commitment to which I plan to stick.
I am not saying this with one ounce of criticism, this is very important to Will and Wells.

I was wondering if anyone else is interested in setting something up as a non-Wells scholarship/award for high school transkids/youth. If people do think this is something feasible, I would be happy to shop around to find a non-profit that would be willing to let this piggyback within their org -- so it wouldn't have to be a stand alone thing. With most of us involved being recent grads without a whole lot of extra cash, it probably wouldn't be able to start out too big, but even a small prize to help with books, etc. could be of use. Let me know thoughts about this. It's so good to see so many old friends popping up on here.
--Sarah A '06

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and while I have some wise eyes here, I could also ask if anyone has any good brief articles or perhaps (brief, easily accessible) video suggestion on trans/queer issues that I could use in an intro to sociology class. I have a class of about 350 kids that I'd love to bring something to, but I'm going to have to convince the prof to squeeze it into the curriculum...THIS WEEK! So far, my main consideration is "X: A Fabulous Child's Story," but I'm not sure....

Since this is off-topic for the purpose of this forum, please feel free to email me at justanothersarah at gmail. Ednie, I'd love to hear from you and will probably send you an email very soon either way now that I have your email address again.
--Sarah A. '06 (again)

Chelle said...

Nobody's surprised I'm piping in. :)

1 - I'm excited the book idea is moving along. Meghan, if it becomes too much, let me know if you need any help.

2 - I think the monetary component should be a prize for students all the way. Echoing the 'no donating to Wells' sentiment, I would be really torn about donating to this prize unless I knew it was going directly to a student specifically in memory of Will. I don't want to give anything to the college, and I feel like giving to staff/faculty is in a way giving to the college, while giving to students is not. I hope that makes sense.

3 - If Honors Convocation is not possible, how about graduation?

4 - Add my vote to those on board with Carrie's wording.

5 - Depending on how the monetary prize is given out (ie: to whom) will depend on how often we can donate, if at all. If it is given to a student, though, we should be able to make a yearly donation -- barring any tragedies. We can't commit to a specific amount for every year, though, that might have to fluctuate.

6 - Money = student prize; book = prize for other community member

7 - I previously commented what I think about the selection committee (alums plus 2 seats for the current WS chair and a student member elected from LBQTA) -- what about adding an additional seat for a recent alum nominated from LBQTA or SDC or something similar who then stays to replace the oldest alum (by year of graduation, if there is more than one from each year we can figure out how to decide) on the committee. This way, you start off with a committee of alums (and other people who were at Wells with Will) that remembers Will, but the alums are continually replenished, and the end result will be a committee with an intimate knowledge of the current Wells community. And, if we wanted to keep a tie to Will, there could be 2 Will-era alums who don't ever leave (I nominate Carrie & Katie for this, especially in light of all their current hard work). E & I would be interested in being on the committee (although I guess E depends on how you define 'alum').

Anonymous said...

I'm unsure of the wording here. I think that a lot of people go unrecognized in public, who may have helped others privately to understand trans issues. There is also the factor of promoting awareness, cooperation, and acceptance through existence as a visible, positive influence. Also, what about creative mediums?

I would also keep the prize limited to students, whom I believe would benefit more from the prize and the recognition of trans issues than faculty/staff.

Although it may seem to promote fragmentation, I wonder if the prize would be best given to a transgender student. Honestly, it has been very difficult to get any trans voice heard at Wells, especially at a non-token level. Whomever rises to that task should be honored. And non-trans folks at Wells- enlightened queers, even- have often handled trans issues in ways that enrage me. (ie: No one knowing what transgender means, and not having a dialog, but strewing the names of dead trannies all over the dining hall, along with how they died...) So, to introduce bias, I would assert that when many folks try to contribute to trans issues and receive recognition, they may be doing more harm than good... Yet, they are still activists. I believe that the key stakeholder in an issue is the best representative of it, and don't trust that activism is at a point where any well-meaning person can effectively and genuinely assist transfolks. (Sorry, this isn't a rant, but a difficult explanation)
So, I propose the title resemble the following:
The William Nicholas Liberi Memorial Prize: Awarded annually to Wells College student who has demonstrated a commitment to transgender issues through service to the community via activism, visibility,literary, or artistic endeavors.

Who should vote? I believe a faculty member who had significant contact with Will, and with a wide variety of current students. Also, Katie and/ or Carrie, the chair/co-chairs of Q&A, and Nick Heap. I think Nick is essential to this, if he'll agree to be involved. They were like brothers, and Will always looked up to Nick. I think his opinion will be of great value.

Vic Muñoz said...

Lee, I'm really gald you wrote. I thought what you said at Will's memorial service was what needed to be said to get dialogue going. How Will was "lost at Wells" and that it shouldn't take someone dying for Wells to honor and remember trans people. I was so happy you spoke. But instead of dialogue the dean of students shut down the service I think because you were getting too close to truth. To me that illustrates exactly what you're saying here. I don't read what you wrote as a rant at all. You are explaining a hard truth. Good intentions alone are not enough, although always better than a bad heart?

I really like your ideas on who should award the prize and the wording, too. It can be a longer description, there's no word limit. Taking up space is okay by me.

I was thinking, too, that maybe the title of the prize itself should have TLGBQ in it, something like The William Nicholas Liberi Memorial Prize for TLGBQ Activism?

Meghan Roberson Sommers '05 said...

In case anyone is looking here for any answers to the book questions I asked the library, here it is. I'll either start another site for the book plan or another thread on this board, but I'll start here:



Hello Meghan,

What a wonderful idea. Thank you for thinking of the Library as a means of
honoring Will.

We would be pleased to add to our collection on transgender/queer
issues. The only
criterion is that we do not duplicate. If we have the title, we would
prefer to add something
that we don't already hold.

As for logistics, who would do the selection? Would it be guided by a
faculty member with
the intention of it being used in the curriculum? It doesn't have to
be, I was just wondering.
Also, how do you wish to proceed? Is this a one time offer? In which
case, would a reference
title be out of place?

A book plate will be placed in the book with either "Given in Honor of
William Liberi '05" or "Given
in Memory of William Liberi '05", whichever you prefer.

Again, we are so grateful to be included.
Muriel

--
Muriel K. Godbout
Associate Library Director
Long Library
Wells College
Aurora, NY 13026
315 364-3356
Fax: 315 364-3412

Katie Fong '06 said...

Meghan, that is so awesome! Let us know if you want to create a blog and we'll link to you from here to help spread the word.

Meghan Roberson Sommers '05 said...

Katie- I will definitely set up a blog... I was about to, but I got stuck on a title for the blog and the URL! I was trying to think of something relevant that is similar (but not so similar as to be confusing!) to this one. Any brilliant ideas? If I can figure out what to call it and stuff, I'll get that blog up by tonight. :-)

Vic Muñoz said...

Hi Meghan,

This is wonderful. I said this on another thread, but ... I hope we do give out two awards; one for a student and another one in recognition of an ally on faculty or staff. Wouldn't it be nice to hear Will's name twice with recognition of trans/queer issues?

abrazos,

Vic